How do I get the best out of me?
I be me!
But who am I?
This has and will be a question I will always ask; I feel it keeps me in alignment with who I am. Stopping to reflect, contemplate and ensure I’m moving with sprit, heart, and soul. Time, I take to sit and be with myself is the most important part of my day.
A commitment I’ve made.
How do I get the best out of me?
It’s a great question isn’t it; how do I get the best out of me? Straight away I was thinking who do I compare myself against? It’s kind of a heavy question if I go down this road. It was straight into thinking rather that feeling first.
Nope not that road!
Now if I look at the other road and sit into what is it, I love to do, who are the people that bring out the best in me and what environments do I blossom in.
I’m now creating the conditions for me to grow, expand and bloom. I also know that I need not just to provide the ‘solutions’ that comes easily to me. I need a project/vision that will challenge me as in grow beyond my current environment. It needs to push past my comfort zone, take me to a place I’ve never been. It’s exciting, it’s like letting a weekend unfold, no specific plans yet having an intention for FUN, new experiences with friends who are ready to explore.
I’ve worked in many jobs, different industries, countries, and environments. Reflecting, I realise I was exploring as to Who I am? Each environment brought out a totally different part of me. I was exposed to myself really (I’m here laughing at this). I thought it was people pushing my buttons, personalities, ways of working, friendships, projects, cultures.
I was growing, learning, and exploring as to who I am. It’s a beautiful thing when you realise the world is working with you.
There’s a saying It’s not happening to you; it’s happening for you!
Yesterday I received the most beautiful compliment, and when I say I received it – this is so important as women to RECEIVE. My heart was open completely to receive the words, intention, and energy behind them. Even now my heart skips a beat, and it comes right up to my throat. I was moved to tears, beautiful tears, when I’m recognized completely in my full essence I feel it in the depth of my being, there is nothing else happening in that moment.
So how do I get the best out of me?
I create an environment that is fertile, with nourishment, inspiration, and support. Yes, we can achieve individually, but there is always at least one person cheering us on, in reality there are many as we have more than one aspect to ourselves. All need encouragement. They see our potential and wants us to be our best selves.
Environment so important! Where we work, what we eat, our connection to nature. Currently working from home means I choose on a given day which window I will sit at so I can look out onto the fields, houses, or horses. Each window has a different view, perspective and energy. Choosing what I need on a given day.
Connecting to the heart, I drop into a space that is so expansive. The heart can take the pain, wrap its arms around it and transform it into love. We’ve an unknown potential in the heart, that has neither been expressed or tapped into. The HEART is like a deep blue ocean, unknown like the cosmos, wiping away our tears, celebrating our love and provides a resting place for our souls.
The heart knows. How does it know? It’s knows! Really…It KNOWS!!
With the mind replaying the past, something it has learnt, seen, or remembered. It needs retraining, refining and A focus. That focus is to support the heart. Taking the actions necessary to make happen what the heart needs.
Heart what do you need from me today?
How do I get the best out of me?
It’s amazing really in surrounding myself with community who BELIEVE in me, I get to Be my BEST self. The crux of it though lies with me, it’s an internal job, I’ve to BELIEVE IN ME. In allowing myself to RECEIVE encouragement, support and different perspectives I grow. I unpeel the layers of defense I thought were supporting me to live well. Seeing the BEAUTY in others I know this sits in me also.
We’ve this untapped potential where we soar, fly and breathe life into the parts that were asleep.
They’ve been waiting for us!
To see ourselves in a beauty beyond words
It’s an energy, feeling, vibration of pure and utter LOVE.
This is us, this is me, this is you!
Come join me in this magical adventure of living IN POWER & BEAUTY.
